Thursday, September 23, 2010

The new norm....






Well it's been quite a while since I have posted and our life continues to evolve and change. It's hard to believe that summer is over and fall has arrived, not that you can feel it here in Richmond. I returned to work the beginning of August which has been quite a transition for our family. I've realized since being back that I love my job more than ever and am so blessed to be surrounded by so many amazing and supportive people that love and care for my family. Mckenzie is staying with Nana (Scott's mom) on the days that I work and she loves every minute of it. It's been a good transition for all of us and one that is becoming more normal every day.

We took our last summer beach trip the end of August and spent the week in my favorite spot the Outer Banks with some good friends. We enjoyed sunshine, sand and made lots of wonderful memories. Mckenzie is a definite beach girl and loved every minute of being in the sand and water. She is growing like a weed and learning something new everyday which is so fun to see. She is talking up a storm and has developed quite a spirited personality. She rules the roost and oh yes she knows it.... Her new loves are Special Agent Oso, Mickey and Mini mouse, shoes and any sort of bag she can get her hands on... It's amazing to me how different girls and boys are even from the start. As much of a girly girl that she can be, she is also quite rough and tumble. She can hold her own and is quite proud of it.

Scott is busy with work and in his down time is busy being a kid with all of the kids on our street, building rockets and having water balloon fights. My mom once told me that God puts you in a place to prepare you and support you for the road ahead. I believe this more than ever and know that is why we bought our house where we did, when we did. Our street is pretty unique families all within the same age range and about 60 kids ranging from 5 months to 12 yrs (a few may be teens).... Instead of neighbors everyone on the street is like family. Tucker continues to inspire us all and I believe has brought this family closer than ever before. I remain in awe of the love, support and friendship that we continue to feel from all of you.

It's so hard to believe it's been 5 months since Tucker was here with us. Each day is different but not easier. I'm not sure that the loss and void we feel will ever get easier, but we continue to vow to live each day honoring Tucker and try our best to replicate the amazing example of life and living that he taught us all.

So excited that tomorrow is Friday, we are looking forward to a weekend of family fun. We are heading to Mathews Saturday to see Meme and Pop. Can't wait to spend some time together. Meme batten down the breakables.... we'll see you soon... xoxo